If the horse pulls you, you become an inverted centaur: horse head, human body; whenever it can't solve CAPTCHA it asks you — exhausting. If you trust the harness, I sleep eight or nine hours, fine. A conceptual shift: not competing on what it maximises, not endlessly patching rules because it keeps blundering — tune the harness so it easily cares about what you care about, and stops when something's wrong for you to fix. Then AI is symbiotic with you.