Second: if I didn't do it well, you do it — let's co-create. Things that spike my heart rate — too happy, too uncomfortable, too angry — I could faint. So, from childhood I practised Quanzhen Taoism's chonghe: when you feel conflict, turn it into co-creation energy. I consciously look for the two sides in conflict, and what they may not see but actually agree on. Platforms and spaces I design tend to have that quality.