So we need to stop aggregating utilities. Instead of saying I spend two seconds and you spend five seconds, aggregating that to seven seconds on the platform, pay attention to self-care, to our relationship, and to how we feel. Do we feel better after an AI-mediated conversation or not? If we grow out of the need for this conversation, does the AI hack our brain to make itself indispensable, or does it say, like a good therapist, "I completed my job"?