So, with my younger brother Bestian, I helped my parents, with their explicit consent, set up an alternative. We set up a local Kami, running on local hardware, on a Mac in our home in Danshui, on free software like OpenClaw. It sits inside our family Signal group, and my father can message the Kami directly. We trained it with directional steering toward one thing only: be loyal to the relational health of this particular family. The fiduciary duty is completely different — it is not trying to earn its keep, not trying to keep you engaged by getting you enraged. My mother's test was the simplest: if the bot makes my father more dependent on chatbots, we built it wrong. But if he can find peace of mind, so that the reality around him becomes more vivid than the chat screen, then we have succeeded.